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Youth Development – The Little Things Aren’t So Little

November 21, 2008 · 2 Comments

by Wanda Parker

KidTrek Training
July 14-29, 2009
 and October 6-13, 2009

In working with kids we often miss the importance of something that many of us just do naturally – but many children miss because they don’t have nuturing adults in their lives.

A friend who ministers on a college campus has built a relationship with a hurting young man.  Scott invites Alex to his home quite often to interact with his family, which includes five children.  One day when Alex was at Scott’s he said, “You sure do have lots of pictures of your kids all over the house.”

Scott asked, “Why is that so significant to you?”

“Because I don’t remember there ever being a picture of myself up in my house when I was a child,” Alex responded.

The importance of pictures.  My house is full of pictures of my children and grandchildren.  I have pictures hanging on the walls, sitting on tables and in boxes on the floor.  Three of my grandchildren take the box of pictures, each time they come, and go through it laughing and remembering as they find pictures of themselves in the box. 

I have the pictures out because they bring up warm memories, they warm my heart.  After hearing the story of Alex and then remembering how my own grandchildren respond to seeing their pictures in my home I realized that the pictures tell others how much I cherish them.

If you serve at-risk kids be sure that you have pictures of them up in the location where you serve them.  Not just one picture of each kid, but many.  Not just in one room or location but all over your center.  This will go a long way in letting the kids know you cherish them.

One director told me that she makes extra copies so the kids can take them home.  What a great idea.

Have fun with the pictures.

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Children’s Ministry – A Philosophy

November 10, 2008 · 2 Comments

By Wanda Parker

 KidTrek Training
July 14-22, 2009 and October 6-14  click here

To see how KidTrek Training can enhance your Church’s Children’s Ministry  Click Here

I.          The purpose of a children’s ministry is to lead children to put Jesus Christ first in their lives, to equip them to serve Him, to care for one another, and to proclaim Him to the world. 

            This is accomplished through three different focuses. 

            Equip parents to train up their children according to who the child is (Proverbs 22:6).  Parents are also encouraged to be the primary teacher of their children (Deuteronomy 6). 

            Minister directly to the child. Childhood is a time of creating memories and building a positive attitude toward Jesus Christ, including a desire to develop a dynamic, intimate relationship with Him (Joshua 4:6,7).  It is important for a child to be folded in, sensing that he or she is a viable part of Christ’s local Body (Matthew 19:13-15).  Active participation in the local church will have a direct influence on the child’s relationship with Jesus as an adult. 

            Equip adults to build significant relationships with children.  These adults will be the role models who support mom and dad’s teaching once the child begins his or her steps toward independence (Matthew 18:1-14). 

II.         The message I want each child to catch and make the motivating force in his/her life is: 

A.     Jesus loves me. (John 3:16, Matthew 19:13-14, Mark 10:16)

B.     I am a sinner separated from God. (Romans 3:23)

C.    God has a plan for me to be united with Him for eternity. (John 3:16, Romans 8:16-17)

D.    Once I accept forgiveness of my sins by receiving Jesus into my life, I will begin to grow.
(I Corinthians. 3:6,7, II Corinthians 10:15, Ephesians. 4:15)

E.     There is only one God made up of three persons: Father, Son and Holy Spirit.  I acknowledge this as a mystery. (Galatians. 4:6)

F.     The Bible is God’s inerrant Word. (II Timothy. 3:16)

G.    Every believer has been given a gift to use in the building up of the church. (I Peter 4:10)

H.    Every believer is commanded to make disciples. (Matthew 28:19-20)

I.        Prayer is communication with God. (Matthew 6:9-13)

J.      The Holy Spirit provides the believer with the power of God for sanctification. (John 13:12-31)

 

III.        The methods used to communicate the message are chosen due to the uniqueness of children. 

            A.         Children are relational, therefore:                                   

                        1.         Each year a child is assigned an adult who will disciple him. (Colossians 1:28)   

                                    a.         Disciplers must have a personal growing relationship with Jesus Christ.
                                    b.         Disciplers must be able to accept children at their developmental level.
                                    c.         Disciplers must be teachable.
                                    d.         Disciplers must be willing to allow God to stir enthusiasm within them.
 

2.         Children are encouraged to build quality relationships with other children within the church through. (I Corinthians 15:23)   

                                    a.         Sunday morning and weekday club programs
                                     b.         Special events and summer ministries
                                    c.         Small group activities with assigned discipler
                                    d.         Retreats 

           B.         Children are concrete thinkers. Therefore, when a concept is taught, the child will actually 
                        experience the concept as part of the lesson. (Matthew 19:13-15)
 

            C.        Children are in process; therefore: 

                        1.         I do not expect a full understanding of the gift of grace.
                        2.         Activities and teaching are age-appropriate. 

           D.        Children have high energy.  Therefore, programs will usually include physical activity.    
                       (Proverbs 22:6)
 

           E.         Children are part of a family unit.  Therefore, some ministries will be geared to the whole
                        family. (Acts 16:32-34)
 

           F.         Children are unique; therefore we attempt to meet each child at his or her own level.
                      (Proverbs 22:6, Matthew 18:1-14)
 

           G.        Children have the potential for deep faith.  Therefore, we will challenge them to pray and
                       experience the power of God. (Matt. 18:1-14; I Corinthians 2:4-5)
 

            H.        Children are learners. Therefore: (Luke 2:52)   

                        1.         The Bible is used in all teaching programs.
                        2.         We recognize that adult behavior and attitudes are constantly teaching the kids. 

I.          Children are developing attitudes that will remain with them their entire life.  Therefore:  (Proverbs 22:6, Matthew 18:1-14)   

                        1.         Programs should be fun.
                        2.         Room environment is important.
                        3.         Adults need to generate enthusiasm.
                        4.         Discipline is an important part of every program. 

J.         The child’s primary teacher should be his or her parents. (Deuteronomy 6, Ephesians 6:4)  Therefore:   

                        1.         Parents will be the first ones encouraged to fill volunteer positions.
                        2.         Parents will be equipped through seminars, conferences, and counseling. 

            K.         Children are naturally self-centered.  Therefore:   

                       1.         We will challenge them to think of others who need to experience the love of Jesus.
                                  (Matthew 28:19-20)
                        2.         We will challenge them to become “difference-makers” for Jesus.
                        3.         They will be encourage to participate in activities which they may not enjoy,            
                                  because 
in the church we are a family, ”I will do what you want and then you will     
                                 do what I want.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Youth Development Center or Deficit Center

November 5, 2008 · Leave a Comment

By Wanda Parker

 

KidTrek Training
July 14-22 and October 6-14, 2009 
click for more info

“Our goal is not to raise good godly kids!
Our goal is to raise great and godly adults!”
Brenda John

If you want to see lasting results from your ministry to at-risk kids it is imperative that you think out into the future.  What do kids need today to become great and godly adults 40 years from now?

There are two very distinct type of ministries/programs.  Which one do you think will produce the best results?

The largest majority of ministries run deficit or drop in centers. 

Deficit/Drop-In-Center

  • Emphasis on kid’s deficit
  • Provide one or two activities to meet a kid’s deficit
       Learning Center
       Bible Clubs
       Recreation Programs
       Cooking/Health
       Drug/Sex Education
  • Concentrate only on the kids
  • Large numbers
  • Fragmented involvement with kid
  • No set length of time to work with kid
  • Kids only receive
  •  Short-term success BUT no lasting positive impact

Youth Development Center

  • Emphasis on kid’s potential
  • Whole-istic – work with whole kid
      Spiritual
      Emotional
      Physical
      Social
      Mental
  • Kids register-attendance required
  • Work with family/school/social service providers
  • Small number of kids (1 adult per 5 kids)
  • Purposeful
      Written plans for each kid
        Discipleship
        Life
        Academic
  • Long term commitment
  • Kids eventually led to give
  • End result oriented
  • Fully prepared for adulthood

 Click here To read more about what at-risk kids need to grow into great godly adults.

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